If he doesn’t want that level of commitment, isn’t ready for it, or just can’t see how great you two could be together, it is not your job to convince him, help him prepare, or show him the way to loving you.

It just means that you love yourself enough to know that you don’t have to beg somebody to have a meaningful and fulfilling relationship with you.

When a man says that he doesn’t know what he wants, the best thing you can do is give him space and move on with your life. Men are often slower than women at processing experiences and emotions. A man can easily coast in a relationship for years, taking the path of least resistance and never speaking up about his unhappiness, and then poof! one day he wakes up from his lazy haze to realize he is completely miserable and wants out. When a man expresses his uncertainty about being in a relationship with you, give him ample space and time to reflect. Don’t try to help him think it through. Don’t try to “be there” for him. Give him time to miss you. Men fall in love with women when they long for them—not when they are persuaded or guilt-tripped into being with them.

I know taking a big step back isn’t easy to do. It’s painful, frustrating, and especially hard for women who are accustomed to proactively solving problems at home, school, and work. No matter how much of a go-getter you are in other areas of your life, when a man tells you he isn’t sure if he wants to be in a relationship with you, back off. Let whatever is supposed to happen play out naturally without your planning and plotting. Have the dignity to walk away from an unfulfilling, ambiguous situation. You owe it to yourself!

Know that what you’re really worthy of is a man who wants to be with you and doesn’t need convincing, and walk away with your head held high.

You only chat with men who want to be in a relationship with you. 

Never whine, beg, moan, plead or cry. 

Just like the title has indicated, he wanted me back in his life...
I... Just don't know I want it to be like or not..

My heart... It's not ready for another breaks up...

I don't even noe wat I can write in this bog anymore...
The thought is good as empty like my heart....
Too scared to move forward....
Too scared to do anything regarding love...

Why must it full of sadness?
Why must I cry over n over again?
Why couldn I choose him eve though I love him?
Why would I feel tis lonely?
Why couldn we stay together?

I'm scared to meet him...
I'm scare of d outcomes...
Even if it is the good news I expected, but... I'll jz feel insecure again...
It would like hell again...
Again I need to worry when will I get dumped...
Even if it is the good news I expected, yet... I couldn... choose to stay...

I feel stupd... Y not if I love him?
But... I know deep down...
It's bcz I love him... It's bcz I love him too much...
My love for him is way beyond bigger than his...
That's y... He wouldn come to love me as much as I do...
In turns... He'll nvr appreciate me...
And... Again... He'll break my heart for the 3rd time..

I can't..
I don't think I can make it with the 3rd...
I wan 2 protect it from breaking again...
I know it sounds like a coward 2 run away... 2 avoid it... 2 b tis stupid...
But I jz noe... Deep down... He wn ever chase me or even stop me from going away...
It is jz te way it is... It is jz te way HE is...

Truthfully...
I miss him.. My most unforgettable day wit him is our 1st unofficial date...
We didn do anythg special other than talking, walking around n watching movies...
Since we aren official yet...
But... I still had fun...

Do you know the answer for that?
It is to fell in love with the person that made you feel like you are a different person...
This person made you experienced a lot of thgs... Which changed you in the process...
It's not forcing you to change but it just happens so naturally...
You are happy with that changes...

I did found that person...
But sadly that person didn't think the same...
I think I have changed a lot...
Just my feelings remains loyal...
But now... I think it's turning blue... and a bit of grey at the side...

I don't know how to search for guy that feels the same as me...
How to know that guy is compatible with me?
Haiz...

It always hurt...
Because it's unexpected and it's cruel...
All these feelings... I dn noe how to put into words...
To me words aren't enough to describe my feelings...
It' just... Too much..

I dn noe hw to meet up with him...
I dn noe wat to say... I dn noe wat can I say...
All that's waiting for me is disappointment and despair...

But I have to meet up so that I could give back his stuffs..
All those thgs are eyesores...

I do feel stupid... But... It feels like I have to do it...

If I start thinking about it... I'll just keep asking myself the same q...

I just wanna end this soon..

I cannot look like the most unfortunate person in the world...
But what can I really do?

I know people all around the world undergoes the same process...
When you date... There should will be break ups, one or two in between...
But seriously...
I don't know how to move on...

It still hurts...
Painful as it could be...
Empty... moody...

Haiz... Even if I am determined to find a new one... But...
Of all people, I know that I wouldn't be able to accept another love...
2 times... Are more than enough...
2 times... My heart was ripped open like nobody business...
Twice I feel I am being left... Abandoned... When I am not prepared the most...

Sure it will heal...
But it won't cure...

How many times should my eyes shed tears so that I could forget about him completely...
Forget those sweet memories...
Forget his smile...
Forget his voice...
Forget his touch...
Forget everything about him?

I still don't get how it is easy for him to let go...
How it is easy for him to forget...
How it is easy for his feelings to fade away...

How foolish am I to stuck here... Unable to move on... For a jerk like him...